I was so honored that last week one of my favorite bloggers Lindsey, who writes the blog A Design So Vast “tagged” me as one of eleven people she wanted to answer a set of questions she came up with in this traveling question and answer theme that’s going around.
I read and look at many blogs but hers is one of my favorites. She writes beautifully and with such heart on topics about life that I and many others wrangle with. So even though I have never in my memory gone through with one of these I took this one on.
This is how it works:
- Post the rules
- Answer 11 questions the tagger posted for you
- Create 11 new questions to ask the people you tag
- Tag 11 people
- Let them know you’ve tagged them
So here are my answers to Lindsey’s questions:
1. What is your favorite book? Why?
Good grief. I am so not good at the favorite question so I’m going to cheat a little here, I hope you’ll forgive me. For the past at least two years and maybe more, I have been pretty much only reading nonfiction. Books I’ve loved this past year or so were mostly about creativity and/or understanding the journey of life (two subjects I’m obsessed with), here are a few I enjoyed: What I Talk About When I Talk About Running by Haruki Murakami; Evil Plans by Hugh MacLeod; An Alter in the World by Barbara Brown Taylor; My Life in France by Julia Child; Falling Apart in One Piece by Stacy Morrison; Plan B by Anne Lamott; A Homemade Life by Molly Wizeberg; The War of Art by Steven Pressfield;
2. What song brings you back most viscerally to a moment in your history? Where does it take you?
Again, there are a lot of them but I’ll try to be more cooperative this time. There are a few gems from Fleetwood Mac, like Rhiannon and Landslide, that transport me instantly to my early years in college 19-20 years old. Full of youth, bursting-at-the-seems-in love, hopefulness, huge insecurities, anxiety, dreams… – a tremendously mixed bags of feelings but mostly warm sun on my bare tanned arms, bare feet, a dry breeze and the feeling that life was in full bloom in front of me.
3. Who is your favorite character in fiction?
The young woman from The Island of the Blue Dolphins. A kid’s book I know, but I never got over her. That book lit up my imagination! Maybe because it was about survival, or because it was one of the few books that had a female main character that I had read. I can’t wait to read it to my daughter in a couple of years.
4. What is your favorite food?
Let’s just start with, I love food, and by now you’ve probably adjusted to the fact that it’s hard for me to choose just one of almost anything, so if it were a last meal situation here are a few standouts for me: Fried chicken; rocky road ice cream; big crunchy salads; burritos served wet style (i.e. with enchilada sauce and melted cheese on top); bone-in rib eye steak with mounds of sauteed mushrooms and onions and served with steamed broccoli tossed in lemon juice; BLT sandwiches; chicken and dumplings (my Moms),…I could go on, but now I have to go make something to eat!
What about foods you abhor? I don’t hate them anymore, but I used to hate beets (tasted like dirt) and Brussels sprouts (I used to swallow them whole as a child).
5. Are you a morning or a night person?
Both technically. I was always a night person and I still love to stay up late and let time unspool into the wee hours, following whatever has my attention (reading, writing, web sites, socializing) but I am now mostly reformed. Since I’m a Mom and I work an 8-5 corporate job, and have other interests that I feel dead inside if I don’t get to play in, I have begun waking up very early (4:30 am most days). I found the evening was actually less productive since I was tired from work and in the morning I can do more of the things that require a fresh clear mind. I have no doubt though if I didn’t have to go to an office job I would take advantage of both as it suited me.
6. What is your default font when you write on your computer?
Times. Boring. I know. But that’s the truth.
7. How many siblings do you have? How many children do you have (as of now)? I have one child, a little girl five years old, I wanted to have another but the timing and life circumstances for me were really bad and I didn’t do it. I know I still could but it feels a little late now. I still have some doubts that I made the right decision, for my daughter’s sake more than anything. She would have been a fabulous sister. I have two siblings, a brother and a sister, both of them younger than me. I love both dearly and am close with my sister. My brother is more independent and still single so we don’t get as much time with him.
8. What season do you like best?
Oh that’s hard for me because I truly love them all. I have no real weather pet peeves. If I had to pick my least favorite of the four it would probably be spring because it’s the most wishy-washy and I spend a good bit of it just waiting for Summer.
9. When you were a child, what did you want to be when you grew up? Beginning in 8th grade or so onward I wanted to be a lawyer. My earlier interests were writer and psychologist. Also fashion designer came in their somewhere between paper dolls and my first Vogue subscription at thirteen.
10. If you practice yoga (even sporadically) what is your favorite pose?
Two of my favorites I just realized are named after birds (weird). Crow – where you balance your legs on your forearms with your hands being your only contact with the floor; and pigeon for the stretch (much easier!). My very favorite standing pose is Shiva Nataraj. So beautiful and graceful when pulled off, and always challenging!
11. When was the last time you cried?
Right after reading through these questions? I’m kidding! I cried at the movie we just watched with my daughter, Dolphin Tales. I cried at the enthusiasm of the kids to help save the dolphin, and for the little kids and adults who also had disabilities and were inspired by the dolphin “Winter”. Enthusiasm, to do something above and beyond, is something I cry at a lot. I am so moved by it. I cry when I watch the marathon, flash mobs (the dancing singing happy variety), and even get choked up at trade shows where I see so many people trying so hard to do well by themselves, their companies, and their families. I know it sounds strange but it moves me!
Here are the ones I tagged to answer the questions I came up with:
Lindsey Mead A Design So Vast (hey! She said I could)
Aidan Donnelley Rowley Ivy League Insecurities
Gale Ten Dollar Thoughts
Gretchen Rubin The Happiness Project
Jena Bullseye Baby
Havi Brooks The Fluent Self
Leo Zen Habits
Amy Whelan Youthful Yogini
Meredith A Mother Seeking
Lisa Baldwin Zen at Play
And here are my questions for them (or you!):
- Excluding now, what was the best, most fun, or most satisfying time of your life? Why?
- If you could do anything for a vocation regardless of what it paid (say you didn’t need the money) what would it be?
- What is one non-profit or charity organization that is dear to your heart? Why? What sets them apart?
- If you could have a second home anywhere in the world and you could travel to and from free of charge, where would it be?
- If you’re feeling blue, or lonely, what are your favorite self-comforting activities?
- What is one big lesson-for-life that has personal meaning for you that you want to teach your child/children or that you just wish you had known sooner?
- What are three things on your “bucket” list?
- Are you right or left handed?
- What is your preferred method for getting in/staying in shape?
- Describe your ideal vacation.
- What is a favorite place you’ve been to in your travels?
Although I tagged certain people above, this doesn’t mean I would not LOVE to hear your own answers to the questions I posed above too. Please share them in the comments if you’re so inclined!